How To Cure The Too Picky Dater
Everyone is entitled to try to find a relationship that really works for them, and if you haven’t found it yet, keeping yourself on the journey is essential until you do. It's also important to remember that a relationship that works for you might be as much about you changing as him meeting your criteria. Why? Because one of the things I observe most with my clients is that they’re often confused about being picky and being held hostage by fear. A fear of being seen for who
How to Know If Your New Love Connection Has Staying Power
Recently, a client said that she didn't know if the man she was dating would fit in with her dinner club. I sensed she was considering this as a reason to stop dating him. Since we'd worked on a values exercise as part of our coaching, I asked what value that was of hers on which he was stepping. With more thought, she realized it wasn't a value. When you focus on criteria that don't reflect your values, you will spend more time with the wrong person and less time with the ri
