For those who know me I have a consistent positive demeanor. I make it a practice of having an attitude of gratitude. It is an extremely rare day that I lament about what may not be going my way. That’s why several years ago my friends and family became very concerned about me. I was sad for weeks and months. I was not the same Nicole everyone knew. I had no awareness of how sad I had become. I had ended a serious relationship with someone I thought I might marry. Always one

I have learned that if you think too much about anything, you’ll never do it. Why is that? Because there are always plenty of reasons to fear what could happen. There’s no shortage of the downside to any new direction. You might worry about: What if he doesn’t like me? What if I don’t find anyone? What if I get hurt again? What if it’s too late for me? What if I had the love I was supposed to have and now it's over? What if I’m not healthy enough? But, what If you had the sam

We all know at least one person whose real life success story backs up the claim that the person’s relationship and/or marriage started with meeting on an online dating site. As mainstream as it’s become, online dating has led to a flaw in how people date. It’s not the medium itself, however, it’s what people do with online dating sites. The flaw is that the characteristics that make a person compatible with you are not evident on an online dating profile. Writing that you’re