I’m searching for “the one.” When I find “the one” then I’ll live happily ever after. Imagine searching for a mirror in your purse. You’re digging through to find the one mirror. You know it’s in there – somewhere. After shifting your keys, wallet, and the tube of lipstick around, you find the mirror. Voila! I found it – “the one” – the mirror. Thinking there’s “one” great job, house, dress or romantic partner, as examples, keeps us in a scarcity mindset. In dating, having m

There are certain people in life that we all avoid. Think about your nosey neighbor who knows everything happening on your block whether it’s about someone else's marriage, children or who just bought the house next door to you. Or, your new co-worker who doesn’t know the meaning of an ‘inside voice’ when he’s talking on the phone. He’s so loud you can hear his entire conversation and he sits two offices down from you! In dating there are certain types of people that we avoi

The world of dating has turned upside down since I first dipped my toe in the internet dating pond. But there are some things that won’t change. By nature and how we are socialized, women fall into traps that make them ineffective daters and relationship partners. Whether you’re dating online (which you should be in order to achieve optimal dating) and/or meeting men organically, it’s in your best interest to be mindful of three big dating pitfalls into which women can fall a

"Whatever you are willing to put up with is exactly what you will have." ~Anon I admit that like a lot of women I have struggled with boundaries in the past. I lacked the appropriate discernment to put fitting boundaries in place with friends, family, co-workers and especially men in love. Ultimately, I did the inner work needed in order to be able to have healthy boundaries. There are certain things and behaviors I no longer tolerate. A boundary indicates bounds or limits. I