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February 15, 2020

I’m searching for “the one.”

When I find “the one” then I’ll live happily ever after. Imagine searching for a mirror in your purse.

You’re digging through to find the one mirror.  You know it’s in there – somewhere. 

After shifting your keys, wallet, and the tube of lipstick around, you find the mirror. Voila!

I found it – “the one” – the mirror. Thinking there’s “one” great job, house, dress...

February 8, 2020

Although Cupid’s intentions are pure, he causes a lot of anxiety each year. Especially for the single crowd.

Instead of celebrating love, or the mere possibility of it, Valentine’s Day gets a bad rap.

“Singles Awareness Day” becomes the most dreaded day of the year for those not spoken for, cluttered with tattered hearts and boxes of tissues.

This year, let’s switch our mindset and embrace the day w...

February 1, 2020

I’m always curious about people who say they’ll know when the person they’re looking for in love shows up.  Beyond this, they’re not able to articulate the essential qualities or what life with this person would look like. Perhaps this is why they keep going on first dates and fewer second and third dates.

Designing a vision of what you want in your life is the first step to manifesting what it is...

January 25, 2020

On paper you’re impressive:  educated, accomplished, independent, attractive and have a great job.

So, why didn’t he call you back after the first date? 

“I thought the date went well. I don’t understand why he didn’t call again.” 

I hear this often from clients who, like a hamster on a wheel, keep going on first dates and fewer second and third dates.

With the prevalence of online dating, expe...

January 18, 2020

Picture this: you’ve seen a handsome and interesting man's profile online. 

“He has potential,” you say to yourself. You engage in a couple of email exchanges moving quickly to the phone call. 

What a voice. He sounds promising!

You make a date to meet. 

What happens next are the effects of false intimacy. 

You start texting back and forth as if you know each other well. You might even be texting or ta...

January 11, 2020

One of my offerings as a dating coach is 

working with clients to write their online dating profile or helping people craft a better essay with my worksheets.

There are many things that people write in their essays that make them ineffective. I want you to be effective. 

The most obvious is when they sound alike. How many women are equally comfortable in a little black dress and a pair of jeans? And...

January 4, 2020

Today I threw out my favorite sweater.

I said thank you for the good times and released it.

It may sound dramatic, but, this sweater meant a lot to me.

I bought it at a vintage clothing store shortly after I moved to Dallas in the early 1990s.

It was my favorite color, too – pink.

I loved this sweater. I wore it until it literally started falling apart.

The timing of its ceremonious exit from my drawer...

December 28, 2019

I have learned that if you think too much