For those who know me I have a consistent positive demeanor. I make it a practice of having an attitude of gratitude. It is an extremely rare day that I lament about what may not be going my way. That’s why several years ago my friends and family became very concerned about me. I was sad for weeks and months. I was not the same Nicole everyone knew I had no awareness of how sad I had become. I had ended a serious relationship with someone I thought I might marry. Always one
I’m often asked by my clients which online dating sites are the best ones. There a lot of choices plus now there are dating apps. You ask, “Which one has the quality men who are age appropriate living in my city? Which one will I get the most responses? I liken it to asking, “At what gym do you lose the most weight? Is it Equinox, 24 Hour Fitness or Gold’s Gym?” Some gyms do have better equipment and some gyms have slightly different clientele. But, you know and, I know that
Those fantastic fairy tales we grew up with - Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and, each with their Prince Charming. Fairy tales are great when we're six years old.
As we got older, parts of those fairy tales stuck in our brain and sabotaged what can be possible with an actual human being in front of us.
Phrases like "the one," "meant to be" and "happily ever after." As if our handsome prince will save us from boredom, loneliness, and mopping the floor. Women have fallen pre
If you’re reading this it’s because you want better… Better men, better relationships, better sex… better everything. You deserve the BEST man. An evolved man… A handsome, successful, spiritual, manly man that adores you and genuinely cares about you. But there’s something you don’t know about the evolved, spiritual man… And it could revolutionize the way you think of who the right man for you is… and the way he thinks of you! If you have ever said to yourself: “Why is there
Most of us would like to be better at flirting. It seems as though the most expert flirters among us mingle effortlessly with the opposite sex, while most of us blush and stumble over our words. Otherwise, outgoing women have no idea how to flirt with men, nor do they want to. They consider it childish, bordering on classless. I have news for you. Here is what you get when you don’t flirt with nice men: a nice conversation. Yet, the mere sound of the word makes many cringe be
Think back to the most memorable date you've had. What made him memorable? Chances are he was engaged, present and interested. It’s as if he could walk into the room and make friends with every person there. Everyone wants to have a great first date. What rarely gets said is that meeting people is only really valuable if they remember you for the positive feeling with which you left them. So, how do you become that memorable first date for him? By being real, by embracing oth
One thing that frustrates all women when they’re out there dating is when a man doesn’t call after a seemingly great date. Does this sound familiar? You went on an amazing date. You completely clicked. You had a great time. He said he would call and you knew he would because he liked you as much as you liked him. Finally, maybe you get to rest. You exhale because he’s going to call. But, then he doesn’t call and he should’ve called. Suddenly our inner critic starts to talk. S
On paper you’re impressive: educated, accomplished, independent, attractive and have a great job. So, why didn’t he call you back after the first date? “I thought the date went well. I don’t understand why he didn’t call again.” I hear this often from clients who, like a hamster on a wheel, keep going on first dates and fewer second and third dates. With the prevalence of online dating, expecting perfection causes more failed first dates than ever before. It only takes a cli
If you’re like a lot of independent and successful women, you may have bought into the myth that men are afraid or intimidated by this kind of woman when it comes to pursuing a romantic relationship. The thought of believing that men are intimidated by you is something you’ve actually given yourself permission to believe. Here’s why: because believing it makes it all about the men. It’s their problem and their fault. It takes responsibility away from you. In fact, it’s not a
How many times have you said to yourself, “I’m tired of meeting losers. All the men are taken. The men I meet are boring, bald, messy, sex crazed, too this, not enough that.” There’s always something. , I hear this all the time, “I don’t have a man because all the good ones are taken.” It’s the most common complaint single women who don’t want to be single make. Don’t get me wrong. I agree - not having quality men to date stinks. But, here’s the thing - it only stinks i