Where ARE All The Good Men?
How many times have you said to yourself, “I’m tired of meeting losers. All the men are taken. The men I meet are boring, bald, messy, sex crazed, too this, not enough that.” There’s always something. , I hear this all the time, “I don’t have a man because all the good ones are taken.” It’s the most common complaint single women who don’t want to be single make. Don’t get me wrong. I agree - not having quality men to date stinks. But, here’s the thing - it only stinks i
6 Easy Ways to Get A Man to Approach You Like the Smart, Successful Woman That You Are
What makes a woman approachable? On paper - you’re amazing: educated, accomplished, independent, attractive and have a great job. So, why aren’t men approaching you in Starbucks, the grocery store or the bookstore? It’s because you may be creating an impression that you don't want to be bothered. If this is the case, he will never make his way toward you. The biggest fear a man has with a woman is rejection. Every once in a while there’s a super confident man who will take t
4 Love-Life Dos & Don'ts For All Single Women
I have always maintained that if you're a smart, successful woman who embraces your singleness and understands that happiness is an inside job, you are a man magnet. You also know that you don’t need a man, but, you’re happy to admit that you want one. We date at the level of our self-esteem. Your relationship is a direct reflection of your own self-love and self-worth. I wondered why does a woman rush into a relationship without having these fundamentals of self in check? Fa
How to Trust Your Intuition And Improve Your Love Life
Think back to a time when you had a certain feeling about someone or some place - something didn’t feel quite right. That feeling like something is off. It’s a feeling that dips down into your gut; there’s an anxiousness - like “I shouldn’t be with this person" or "I shouldn't be here.” You know to what I’m referring, right? That’s the feeling definition of intuition. The dictionary definition of intuition is “a direct perception of truth, fact, etc., independent of any reas
Why Bad Dates Work In Your Favor
“People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime.” - Unknown There are times in the dating process where you might have a slew of bad dates, crazy people, drama, men who can’t commit or unfulfilling relationships. If you go through enough of them - you might think there’s something wrong with you. I want to turn it around and suggest that the process of having bad dates can be very effective in helping you find your best match. How do I know this? Because not
5 Unexpected Ways A Woman Inspires A Man to Pursue and Commit to Her
Do you know the qualities that inspire a man to give his heart fully to a woman? To inspire means to fill or affect with a specified feeling, thought, etc. When a man is inspired by a woman he will pursue or commit to her, depending on where he is in relationship to her. Here are five traits that a woman embodies that make a man feel inspired:
1. First and foremost, your femininity inspires him. Your openness and receptivity to his gifts automatically puts you in your femi
Three Types of Women That Men Avoid in Dating
There are certain people in life that we all avoid. Think about your nosey neighbor who knows everything happening on your block whether it’s about someone else's marriage, children or who just bought the house next door to you. Or, your new co-worker who doesn’t know the meaning of an ‘inside voice’ when he’s talking on the phone. He’s so loud you can hear his entire conversation and he sits two offices down from you! In dating there are certain types of people that we avoi
How To Avoid The 3 Dating Pitfalls That Women Fall Into
The world of dating has turned upside down since I first dipped my toe in the internet dating pond. But there are some things that won’t change. By nature and how we are socialized, women fall into traps that make them ineffective daters and relationship partners. Whether you’re dating online (which you should be in order to achieve optimal dating) and/or meeting men organically, it’s in your best interest to be mindful of three big dating pitfalls into which women can fall a
3 Boundaries Every Single Woman Should Have
"Whatever you are willing to put up with is exactly what you will have." ~Anon I admit that like a lot of women I have struggled with boundaries in the past. I lacked the appropriate discernment to put fitting boundaries in place with friends, family, co-workers and especially men in love. Ultimately, I did the inner work needed in order to be able to have healthy boundaries. There are certain things and behaviors I no longer tolerate. A boundary indicates bounds or limits. I
Why Are You Single? How To Answer The Dreaded Question
Have you ever been in the throes of a great start to a first date and suddenly he tosses out the dreaded question, “Why are you single?” At that moment you can feel your energy level go down a notch. Your body tenses up. Your mind is racing with how to answer in just the right way. You hate this question. Asking someone why he or she is single is the worst question you can ask on a first date. What’s important about knowing this anyway? It goes without saying that many haven’
