You want to meet a high-quality man. But, would you know him when you see him? If you have a history of focusing on things such as must have a college degree, earn a certain income and be at least 6' in height as examples, it's an indicator that you’ve likely missed countless opportunities to meet a high-quality man. In your journey to find your most aligned partner, focusing instead on these six attributes will lead you quickly to the high-quality man you deserve. 1. He’s co

One of my offerings as a dating coach is working with clients to write their online dating profile or helping people craft a better essay with my worksheets. There are many things that people write in their essays that make them ineffective. I want you to be effective. The most obvious is when they sound alike. How many women are equally comfortable in a little black dress and a pair of jeans? And who really cares? It doesn’t say much about you. Another top offender is “I fee

Although Cupid’s intentions are pure, he causes a lot of anxiety each year. Especially for the single crowd. Instead of celebrating love, or the mere possibility of it, Valentine’s Day gets a bad rap. “Singles Awareness Day” becomes the most dreaded day of the year for those not spoken for, cluttered with tattered hearts and boxes of tissues. This year, let's switch our mindset and embrace the day with gratitude. Now that I have the viewpoint of being joyfully in love with my

Recently, a client said that she didn't know if the man she was dating would fit in with her dinner club. I sensed she was considering this as a reason to stop dating him. Since we'd worked on a values exercise as part of our coaching, I asked what value that was of hers on which he was stepping. With more thought, she realized it wasn't a value. When you focus on criteria that don't reflect your values, you will spend more time with the wrong person and less time with the ri

You say you want a committed relationship. You’re tired of being single. There’s nothing wrong with being single. After all, it’s not a disease - it’s just your relationship status and you know this. You have a great life. You’re grateful for the abundance you have in health, family, friends, career and past times. But, you know life would be richer if there was a +1. You tell your girlfriends, your family - maybe even some of your co-workers that you’d like to meet a guy who